老年女性沉迷社交网络“出轨”明星？偶像是假的，孤独是真的

61岁的黄阿姨最近被骗了，不仅损失了一些钱财，还受了“情伤”。

而她并不是类似骗局的唯一受害者。

这一切都要从抖音上的一类假视频开始说起。在剪辑粗糙的视频中，骗子假借中国著名男演员靳东的画面，操着天南海北的口音，向屏幕这边的观众们表达爱意，诱骗她们点赞关注，甚至是开直播带货骗钱，目标受众是那些文化程度不太高的中老年农村女性。

Huang, 61, from southeast China's Jiangxi Province, is still reeling from a scam that drained her emotionally and financially.

It all started with a man on short video app Douyin, who looked like a famous Chinese actor. The man, young and handsome, is seen talking in a series of short videos professing his love for Huang, "I understand you are under a lot of pressure, and I am here to listen." In one of the videos, he sang a romantic song, and in some others, he just asked Huang to click "like" and follow him on the app.

Though Huang had never met him, she couldn't control her feelings for him. For months, she sent him messages and transferred money to an account purportedly owned by him. She even left her husband to search for him, hoping to meet and ultimately marry him.

It ended up that the entire thing was a scam. The bogus account had nothing to do with the actor, and the short videos in which the actor professed his love were entirely made by scammers. Huang kept seeing them because the app's algorithm determined that she is likely to engage with the video based on her past behavior.

After the scam was exposed by Chinese media, Huang was still reluctant to believe that she had been deceived. With the social media platform still investigating the incident, hundreds of middle-aged and senior women were found to be the targets of similar fraud scams.

An elderly woman in a live-streaming on short video platform. /VCG

中国新闻门户网站网易的一项研究发现，在抖音上给假冒名人短视频评论的用户中，30.35%是40 - 50岁的女性，50岁以上的女性则占约15%。

纽约大学老龄创新孵化中心联合负责人、纽约大学迈尔斯护理学院吴蓓教授表示，对于中国农村女性来说，婚姻是一个应用函数问题。在结婚和抚养孩子方面，他们没有太多选择，因为他们期望自己老了以后能得到照顾。

“但作为人类，渴望社会支持和社会联系，”吴教授说，“对于这些女性来说，没有了爱的空间，在情感支持这一块就是真空的。

长期缺乏情感支持使农村妇女不知不觉中成为心理健康问题的受害者——根据《2018年中国全国心理健康发展报告》，农村留守妇女比男性更容易抑郁和焦虑。

A research done by the Chinese news portal NetEase found that among the users commenting on those bogus short videos impersonating celebrities on Douyin, 30.35 percent are women between the age of 40 and 50. Around 15 percent are women over 50.

In the comment section, those women, many from rural areas, confided that they felt heard and understood by watching those short videos. "Your song reaches the bottom of my heart," wrote one elderly woman. "My entire life, all I did was serve my husband, my children, and later my grandchildren."

For women in rural China, marriage is a matter of utility function, said Bei Wu, professor of Global Health and director of global health and aging research at New York University Rory Meyers College of Nursing. They don't have many options in terms of who to marry and raise the children with the expectation that when they grow old, they would be taken care of.

"But we, as human beings, long for social support and social connection," said Wu. "For those women, there is no room for love, so that leaves a huge vacuum for emotional support."

That long-term deprivation of emotional support made women in rural areas the silent victims of mental health problems. According to the 2018 Report on National Mental Health Development in China, women who are left behind in rural areas are more likely to experience depression and anxiety compared with men.

An elderly man carries firewood. /VCG

社交媒体的爆炸式增长，尤其是抖音和快手等短视频应用，利用了中国农村女性未能得到满足的情感需求。她们的主要职责是留守在家里照顾家人，因此拥有大量空闲时间花在各种短视频网站上。

AgeClub 银发壹族创始人CEO段杰明表示，由于短视频应用对读写能力几乎没有要求，并且它们算法驱动的操作意味着老年人不需要主动搜索信息，因此它们在老年人中的用户群正在迅速扩大。

但，这些女性有限的教育背景和信息渠道却让她们无法识别社交网络上的错误信息，从而成为网络诈骗的目标。

The explosive growth of social media, in particular short video apps like Douyin and Kuaishou, tapped into that unmet demand for emotional connection among women in rural China. Since many of their primary responsibility is to stay at home and take care of the family, the vast amount of free time they have is now spent watching short videos on their smartphones.

It is clear that short videos are gaining popularity among elders, said Duan Mingjie, CEO and founder of AgeClub, a consulting firm specialized in research on senior citizens. Since short video apps have virtually no requirement for literacy, and their algorithm-driven operation means elders do not need to actively search for information, their user base among senior citizens is expanding at a rapid speed.

But social media and the digital world can potentially increase the gap between those "who have and those who have-nots," said Wu from New York University. The lack of tech know-how, compounded with the longing for emotional connection, made elder women of lower income and lower educational background easy targets of online scams.

Many of those women cannot identify misinformation on social media, and family intervention oftentimes end up creating further polarization. In the case of Huang, when her family members tried to persuade her out of wiring money to the bogus account, endless fights ensued. By playing the role of sympathetic grandchildren or using romance scams to appeal to widowed or divorced elderly women, fraudsters could use a range of tactics to get the elderly victims to fall into the trap.

Seniors sit under the sun in Hainan, China. /VCG

This means that social media platforms can play a more active role in combating frauds and taking into consideration of the needs of elderly users, said Duan. After the case of Huang was exposed, Douyin announced that it took down more than 5,000 spam accounts, which gained followers by impersonating celebrities.

But there are always means for scamers to target elders, by changing the means through which they reach out to the elderly population. The old trick of phone scams to steal money and personal information has now evolved into clickbait scams, phishing scams, or whatever other forms.

在中国的许多城市，老年护理中心、社区和老年大学已经开始提供旨在提高老年人科技素养的培训项目。在大学生志愿者的帮助下，这些老人能够掌握一些基本的信息技术知识。

但在农村，这样的机会少之又少。越来越多的农村年轻人加入到向城市移民的大潮中，老人们没有多少机会四处迁徙，也没有多少机会体验这个世界，他们在面对复杂的数字世界时，没有人可以求助。

In many cities across China, senior care centers, residential communities, and universities for the elderly have started to offer training programs aimed to improve the tech literacy of elders. With the help of volunteer college students, those elders have grasped the basic tech know-hows.

Elders learn to use the computer at a university for elders in Kunming, China. /VCG

But rural residents are less able to access those training programs. As young people joined the relentless current of urban migration, with less means to move around and to experience the world, elders in rural areas have no one to turn to when it comes to navigating the complex digital world.

It used to be the case in rural China, where there were strong communities. But with the rapid urbanization, the family support system is being eroded now, said Wu.

"They are lonely. They don't have resources and opportunities to see the outside world," she noted. "So we need to restore that community support."